I disagree, but in the interests of stopping the off-topic discussion so we can get back to gushing over Bao I think we can handshake on "agree to disagree".I wasn't going to interject because it's getting really off-topic, but I wanna say 2 things. One is the whole idea of finding someone who likes you as you are is fine and all, but at some point you have to realize that just being yourself isn't enough. People have preferences, they have kinks, and fantasies. You won't always correspond to those by simply being yourself. If you want someone to be attracted to you, you gotta make an effort to satisfy the desires of that person in some way. Obviously I don't meant to change yourself completely for someone else, but to meet in the middle so to speak. For example, if you're not happy with yourself, if you don't like the way you are, there is very little chance you will be able to convey your attraction in a way that's captivating to anyone else. So you gotta fix that at some point in whatever way it needs.
The other thing is HOLY SHIT!!! did I write my username as ATROLabusssy? it was supposed to be ASTROLabusssy, like from ASTROlabe. I've had this account for almost a year now, I open this forum almost every day and I never noticed that wtf??? And I only noticed that because this guy decided to abbreviate it lol. I even explained my name to a guy once and didn't even see it. The absolute shock I felt it was like my head was spinning bro. Mandela effect type shit.
Er, sorry if I caused any mental anguish over the handle typo. lol
EDIT: If it's any help you can click on your name at the top right next to the search bar, go to Account Details and you can edit/change your name from there.
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